Hi David!
I have read your trend in this forum and also been tracing your steps in according to what you propose in this forum.
an interesting question to ask is "is this business REALLY your desire?" if the answer is yes, then basically you encountered a 'discipline' problem, that's all, but its deadly. :>
On another note, what separate the successful from the crowd is that the successful do thing people do not want to do and they do it even if they don't like it because they know its necessary and they have the end in mind.
so "what's your end in mind?"
another suggestion is, maybe its about time you look for genuine and trustworthy partner to help you scale it up.
understand that at times, entrepreneurs might be too protective over thei 'baby' and refuse to 'dilute' the process, in fact what they are doing is not diluting but saturating it.
just my two cents worth.

hope it trigger off something...